Are
you struggling?
Are
you faced with a serious temptation?
Where
is your heart…is your first love Jesus?
Tough
questions, I know, but real ones to be sure…as we ALL go through difficult
times and face temptations. I want to
encourage you today however by proposing that it is our response which makes
all the difference.
You see I
believe we all have a free will and we are all accountable for our own choices…I
believe we all can choose to obey The Lord or not to.
None
of us are immune…we all undergo difficulties and face temptations that can try
to pull us away from Jesus being number one in our lives.
What are you
facing right now?
Can
I suggest that a very real option is to give praise to The Lord?
Bear with me
a moment and see where I go with this…because I actually do know how awful and
gut wrenching some struggles and temptations can be.
Just
this week I have needed to stand firm in my resolve to have Christ as number
one, as I was faced with a very real and alluring temptation and pain from loss…yes
I have experienced this.
This
week I thought I may lose someone in my life that I love, if I wasn’t easy
going with their view on a matter that I know actually is not scriptural.
I had someone
say to me… “Well I don’t know ANY Christians who actually do that…you may lose
them.”
However
I know what The Word says on this issue and actually how serious an issue it
is. So I resolved that I would put Jesus
first, and risk losing this person I love…
To some I
may seem like an overzealous Jesus girl or my own worst enemy…however my
relationship with Jesus is my first priority and I cannot take Jesus’ sacrifice
for granted and sin against my conscience.
I
knew that I could not listen to the voice of un-truth in my mind that was
feeding my anxiety.
I
went to church and sang praise to The Lord and afterwards continued to do so at
home for most of the afternoon…I praised The Lord even though my gut was
wrenching! When fear rose inside me I
needed to keep my mind focused upon scriptural truths and upon the eternal
relationship that I have with The Lord which is worth more than any temporal
human one here and now. I understand
that can sound harsh…but I’m just being honest.
I
think of the disciples when they were told to be silent about Jesus and the Gospel
– they stood firm and said that they must obey God above all others – see Acts 5:17-42. They continued to sing God’s
praise through spreading the Gospel message and what was The Lord’s response?
I believe
that He strengthened them in their relationship with Him and this is what I say
to you He will also do for you.
No
temptation you face is ever from God – see James 1:13.
When
faced with temptations and struggles draw nearer to God and satan will flee –
see James 4:7-8.
God
will step in and strengthen you – He will not let you endure more than you can
handle – see 1 Cor 10:13.
When
struggling, stand firm in what you know is true – do not think “Oh it will be
okay, God will understand…” For that can be putting The Lord to the test and we
are not to do that – See Luke 4:12.
I
had an interesting conversation recently with a person who said that the advice…”Give
it to The Lord” was never helpful because they didn’t understand what this ‘churchy’
phrase meant.
I
propose that this ‘churchy’ phrase is indeed helpful, when we understand how to
do it, and actually put it into practice. I believe that it does not mean to simply pray
then do nothing, expecting God to pop you into a protective bubble and control
everything around you…for how will you grow stronger this way? I
think it can look like this:
1. Pray and ask
God to help you overcome this issue– but really mean it! Don’t pray
and ask if you don’t have the resolve in your mind to take the fight on with
God alongside – James 1:6-7.
2. Draw near to
God after praying by asking The Lord to speak to you through His Word, then
READ IT!
3. Draw nearer
to God’s people for strength – go to church sing, cry, talk, laugh…do whatever
is necessary and let God’s people minister to you during this time – we are
made to be a community of believers, don’t lock yourself away…remember iron
sharpens iron…book in for an appointment for a chat with your pastor.
4. Pump up the
music – put that biblical praise music on and let it soak into you.
5. And finally try
to understand that you are not facing anything that others have not had to
endure and that you CAN be joyful during this difficult situation because you
are enduring it BECAUSE you are a Christian which IS something to praise God
for regardless! Read this powerful section of scripture 1
Peter 4:12-19 (NRSV):
12 Beloved, do not be surprised at
the fiery ordeal that is taking place among you to test you, as though
something strange were happening to you. 13 But rejoice insofar as you are
sharing Christ’s sufferings, so that you may also be glad and shout for joy
when his glory is revealed. 14 If you are reviled for the name
of Christ, you are blessed, because the spirit of glory,
which is the Spirit of God, is resting on you. 15 But let none of you suffer as a
murderer, a thief, a criminal, or even as a mischief maker. 16 Yet if any of you suffers as a
Christian, do not consider it a disgrace, but glorify God because you bear this
name. 17 For the time has come for
judgment to begin with the household of God; if it begins with us, what will be
the end for those who do not obey the gospel of God? 18 And “If it is hard for the
righteous to be saved,
what will become of the ungodly and the sinners?” 19 Therefore, let
those suffering in accordance with God’s will entrust themselves to a faithful
Creator, while continuing to do good.
Scripture says that we are NOT to be mismatched with unbelievers –
Read this:
2 Corinthians 6:14-7:1 (NRSV)
The Temple of the Living God
14 Do not be mismatched with unbelievers. For what partnership is there
between righteousness and lawlessness? Or what fellowship is there between
light and darkness? 15 What agreement does Christ
have with Beliar? Or what does a believer share with an unbeliever? 16 What
agreement has the temple of God with idols? For we are the temple of the
living God; as God said,
“I will live in them and walk among
them,
and I will be their God,
and they shall be my people.
17 Therefore come out from them,
and be separate from them, says the Lord,
and touch nothing unclean;
then I will welcome you,
18 and I will be your father,
and you shall be my sons and daughters,
says the Lord Almighty.”
and I will be their God,
and they shall be my people.
17 Therefore come out from them,
and be separate from them, says the Lord,
and touch nothing unclean;
then I will welcome you,
18 and I will be your father,
and you shall be my sons and daughters,
says the Lord Almighty.”
7 Since we have these promises, beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from
every defilement of body and of spirit, making holiness perfect in the fear of
God.
We are supposed to be lights in this dark world…and I ask you how
can we be if we live like everyone else?
Jesus spoke about us being light and salt…then proposed that if salt
loses its saltiness that it is no good for anything and needs to be thrown out –
see Matt 5:13. He also said that if we
love Him we will obey Him – See John 14.
If your
problem seems overbearing do ‘give it to The Lord’ – be active and keep firm in
your resolve to obey The Lord and have Him as number one – do not give in because
you actually will suffer more, rather than grow and become stronger in your
relationship with Him!
Finally as I know this is a long post – we are not Christians when
it suits us – our lives are hidden in Christ, being a Christian is 24/7 stuff –
Read this:
Colossians 3 (NRSV)
The New Life in Christ
3 So
if you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where
Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. 2 Set
your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth, 3 for
you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. 4 When
Christ who is your life
is revealed, then you also will be revealed with him in glory.
5 Put
to death, therefore, whatever in you is earthly: fornication, impurity,
passion, evil desire, and greed (which is idolatry). 6 On
account of these the wrath of God is coming on those who are disobedient. 7 These
are the ways you also once followed, when you were living that life. 8 But
now you must get rid of all such things—anger, wrath, malice, slander, and
abusive language
from your mouth. 9 Do
not lie to one another, seeing that you have stripped off the old self with its
practices 10 and
have clothed yourselves with the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge
according to the image of its creator. 11 In
that renewal there
is no longer Greek and Jew, circumcised and uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian,
slave and free; but Christ is all and in all!
12 As
God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with compassion,
kindness, humility, meekness, and patience. 13 Bear
with one another and, if anyone has a complaint against another, forgive each
other; just as the Lord has
forgiven you, so you also must forgive. 14 Above
all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds everything together in perfect
harmony. 15 And
let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in
the one body. And be thankful. 16 Let
the word of Christ dwell
in you richly; teach and admonish one another in all wisdom; and with gratitude in your hearts sing
psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs to God. 17 And
whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus,
giving thanks to God the Father through him.
In these last days some people
will tell you what you want to hear – see 2 Tim 4:3 – however I say to you that
drawing nearer to God through biblical truth is the way for peace in your life –
love Melanie.
As for me and my house...we will only serve The Lord:
2 comments:
It is so hard to speak the truth in a loving and gentle way when you know that someone you love may reject you. If you are really speaking the words Christ is compelling you to speak, it is really Him that the person is rejecting. In the meantime, staying near to the Lord is vital. And, I have seen the fruit of a person broken and repentant from doing such a thing. It took time, but my friend later brought me flowers after he rededicated his life to Christ.
Thanks Chanda for your encouraging story...praise God! Much love, Melanie :)
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